Lately, one of my biggest baby worries has not been about Baby B but about our other baby, Baby Wubby.
I love love Baby Wubby and he is overall a good dog/puppy - we are very lucky. But that does not mean I have not been super worried about how Baby Wubby and Baby B will get along. Actually, I was particular worried (a) sleeping arrangements (because up until Sunday Wubby slept in our bed) and (b) Wubby's new found desire to chew random things at random times when our back was turned.
Wubby thinks he owns the place, apparently this is a problem!
A few weeks ago, we came home to what we refer to as a "tornado" in our bedroom as Wubby had eaten a ton of random things while we were gone. And, well, this sent me into overdrive - can I blame the pregnancy hormones yet again? Poor Aaron had to listen to many talks of how I felt overwhelmed about the idea of caring for a baby and watching Wubs 24/7. At that point, I really did not think it was possible. I was super super nervous about the idea of turning my back for a second and what Wubby would do, or rather chew in the meantime.
Luckily, in the past week, we have initiated what I like to call "Wubby Bootcamp" and I am feeling a whole lot better. Earlier last week, Wubby's trainer came for a home visit. And we got some great ideas on how to best calm my fears and work with Wubby. For instance, I was worried that if I had to run upstairs when the baby woke up from a nap, for instance, and Wubby did not follow me, he might start chewing on the toys, swing, or whatever other baby item was strewn about. We came up with the idea of having a "Wubby gated area" downstairs to manage that situation (which is harder than it seems because we have no doors and a very open 1st floor). We also worked on the idea of teaching Wubby "down and stay." So that he would stay down when I needed him to. Wubby has been a champ at doing both things although he really does not like to go "down." He knows what we want him to do but he would rather just stay up for fun (I cannot understand why he gets lots of cheese when he does go down and Wubby loooovveess cheese).
This weekend my fears were eased even more and the "Wubby Bootcamp" really kicked off after we attended Isis's Babies and Barks class led by the owner of the Pawsitive Dog. (Isis is a Boston base company that provides a number of different parenting resources for New England parents everything from stores, consults, classes etc.) Aaron was actually the one who suggested we take the class and I was so happy we did (although he may have been ready to kill me as I asked a question about every two minutes).
The class pretty much taught us that we have been doing everything wrong. OOPPS!!! Its not that we are bad puppy parents but little things that we are doing could add up to problems.
Apparently as cute as he is sleeping on the couch this is a big NO-NO
Overall, Wubby has been taking it really well, probably better than me. It is tough to kick him out of the bed and keep him crated or gated at night. It is tough to ignore him when we first get home or when we have been away for a long time. However, in the end, I know that it will be better for Wubby, Baby B and us and at least for now I am little more calm about having a Wubby and a baby.
Because how can I not love these boys...